Be Yourself! Yes that's right, simply be yourself irrespective of the situation. But, it is seen as the most complicated thing. Why do you change? what do you get when changed?
The general assumption especially for ladies in this country is to change themselves after marriage, Why? Just to satisfy her husband and in-laws. If not, she will be seen differently, named differently. Well some argue as though it's their birth right that it's nothing wrong. All along we have our habits which best build since our childhood and suddenly post marriage there is an expectation to change. Most of them start actin as though they changed. This is just to satisfy somebody's ego.
So, what to do? How to start being self.
First, you need to decide yourself that you will be yourself and start saying it. Nothing wrong in saying "I am what I am".
Second, start behaving yourself and stay strong in your decision. There might be initial conflict but people around you will start understanding you and after some point start accepting you.
Third, Don't stop with you and start passing the baton to others who requires that push to come out of their shell.
This is not something to happen overnight, but certainly a move to become better and be more self driven.
Cheers,
Happy Independence Day.
Saluting those freedom fighters who were the reason for our celebration. Let us pay tribute to them on our 75th Year of independence.
Jai Hind!
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