Catch Your Dreams

 Hello all,

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Today, my topic is about dreams. Everyone of us have dreams. It might be small or big, cheap or costly, easy to achieve or difficult to touch. But, we have dreams. I am not talking about the dream that comes during the sleep. Definitely not about that, the dream what I mean is the aspirations of our mind. 

It all starts at young age, where we see people ask the kids, what would you like to become.  From thereon so many instances that occur for the kids where they are forced to answer. Is this right!  Even if a kid confidently says, i want to become a collector or doctor, there is a smile in the listener's face and they start judging on if the kid will really achieve. They relate the kids circumstances including their parents, school at which the kid studies, area where the kid resides etc., and conclude whether the kid will really achieve or not.  Shouldn't we ashamed of this attitude of some elders shown toward the kids.

Dreaming is good, dreaming helps to visualize the big picture, dreaming pushes ourselves beyond our boundary. So, encourage kids to dream. Teach them to define a goal, and start to dream everyday to achieve the goal. Believe me, the dream will make it happen, you will find ways and means to reach your goal, whatsoever you name it as, dream will be fulfilled if it become a practice. 

There is famous saying in sanskrit “Yatho Hasta thatho Drishti, Yatho Drishti thatho Manah Yatho Manah thatho Bhaava, Yatho Bhaava thatho Rasa.” Meaning: Where the Hands go, the Eyes should follow, Where the Eyes go, the Mind should follow, Where the Mind goes, the Emotions are generated. Similarly is the dreams, when the dream is grounded strong in the mind, the mind sits in the driver seat and takes the body to the dream destination.

So, dream everyday, dream good things, dream to help others, dream to become the leader. Tell the kids to dream, inculcate in their mind to dream big and to visualize their dreams. It will come true.

Cheers,

Love Yourself

Love Yourself! Looks philosophical, yet practical. 

Frequently we hear a murmur "stress". Everyone says/feels stressed. Why is it? Why everyone started depending on others, started blaming others, started defending. The situation around us is changing. Elders talk more on stress which reflect in the words of kids. 

Today, most of us are salaried, some are doing own business, some are packed with home work though they are called house wife. Everyone are running behind daily routines. We forgot our happiness. 

If we have to change this, it has to start with each one of us. First and foremost, we need to believe this. Love yourself, yes you hear it right, live yourself. Only when you keep start loving yourself, you start enjoying the happenings around you. Start doing things that bring happiness to your mind. 

Once you achieve it, expand it by start giving happiness to your near and dear. It should be made contagious. Start spreading positive vibes. Slowly, everyone will start doing it, the chain grows longer and longer and makes the society happier.

This will help people to build a healthy society.

Cheers

Be Yourself!

Be Yourself! Yes that's right, simply be yourself irrespective of the situation. But, it is seen as the most complicated thing. Why do you change? what do you get when changed?

The general assumption especially for ladies in this country is to change themselves after marriage, Why? Just to satisfy her husband and in-laws. If not, she will be seen differently, named differently. Well some argue as though it's their birth right that it's nothing wrong. All along we have our habits which best build since our childhood and suddenly post marriage there is an expectation to change. Most of them start actin as though they changed. This is just to satisfy somebody's ego.

So, what to do? How to start being self. 

First, you need to decide yourself that you will be yourself and start saying it. Nothing wrong in saying "I am what I am". 

Second, start behaving yourself and stay strong in your decision. There might be initial conflict but people around you will start understanding you and after some point start accepting you.

Third, Don't stop with you and start passing the baton to others who requires that push to come out of their shell.

This is not something to happen overnight, but certainly a move to become better and be more self driven.

Cheers,

Happy Independence Day. 

Saluting those freedom fighters who were the reason for our celebration. Let us pay tribute to them on our 75th Year of independence.

Jai Hind!